
How to Proceed with Divorce? 4 Divorce Methods and Steps
To get a divorce, you need to talk with your spouse or go to court. The process and steps for divorce are different depending on the method.
This page explains the 4 divorce methods and their steps. Understanding these can help you proceed smoothly with your divorce.
4 Divorce Methods
There are four methods of divorce: negotiation, mediation, judgment, and trial.
- Negotiation Divorce This method involves talking directly with your spouse and agreeing on the divorce terms. You submit a divorce paper to the city office without going to court.
- Mediation Divorce In this method, you go to the family court, and mediators help you and your spouse agree on the divorce terms.
- Judgment Divorce If mediation fails, the family court decides the divorce terms. This method is rare.
- Trial Divorce If mediation fails or if there is an objection to the judgment, you go to court for a trial. The court decides the divorce if there are legal reasons.
First, try to talk with your spouse and aim for a negotiation divorce.
Steps for Negotiation Divorce
- Talk Tell your spouse you want a divorce and discuss the terms. If you agree, make a divorce agreement.
- Make a Divorce Agreement Write down the agreed terms. It’s safer to make it a notarized document.
- Submit the Divorce Paper Fill out the divorce paper and submit it to the city office. This finalizes the divorce.
Steps for Mediation Divorce
- Apply for Mediation One spouse applies for mediation at the family court.
- Discuss in Mediation Sessions Mediators listen to both sides and help adjust opinions.
- End Mediation If you agree, mediation is successful, and you submit the divorce paper. If not, you go to trial.
Steps for Judgment Divorce
- Mediation If mediation fails, the court decides the divorce terms.
- Final Judgment If there is no objection within two weeks, the judgment is final, and you submit the divorce paper.
Steps for Lawsuits Divorce
- Submit Lawsuit Submit a lawsuit to the family court.
- Court Hearings Both sides present their arguments and evidence in court.
- Final Decision If both sides agree, the divorce is finalized. If not, the court decides.
Conditions to Decide in Divorce
When divorcing, you need to decide on the following conditions:
- Property division
- Pension splitting
- Child custody
- Visitation rights
- Child support
- Alimony
- Marital expenses

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